Stop complaining. Stop comparing. Focus on bettering your life and envision what you want...the more you live in gratitude, the more the universe will give you to have gratitude about. Stop hiding behind so-called perfection and just be who you are...whatever it is, IS worthy of love and respect. We all deserve love.
Offering self-love and sometimes just embracing humanness and letting go of projected outcomes and just being content with what ever transpires is a lovely way to let the story unfold. The bad, painful, ugly stuff...aka, the storm, always come right before the sunshine.